They can result in stress, discontent, and high levels of interpersonal conflict that can preclude people from developing the types of relationships and career success desired
Triggers include such things as:
• Arrogant behaviour
• Physical and verbal aggressiveness
• Be condescended to
• Disloyalty
• Lying
• Gossiping
• Unashamed incompetence
• Lack of communication
• Bing told what to de
• Being laughed at
• People not doing something they said they would
• People withholding information
• Being left out
Triggers can set off emotion like frustration, resentment, jealousy, fear and defensiveness. They often leave people in a state of mind where they are unable to express themselves appropriately. They can set off aggressive behaviour or, conversely, cause people to shut down and stop communication at all. As a result, we develop coping habits that can create interpersonal conflict. Even where triggers are real, the damage done by those that react to them are worse