making sense of negative events and coping with them.
And who was especially bad at predicting how they’d react to a breakup? People who reported being more in love with their partners, and people who thought their prospects for finding someone new were especially bad. People who didn’t have a major role in initiating the break-up were especially likely to overestimate how unhappy the breakup would make them.7
So, what should you do when trying to decide a relationship’s future? First, don’t overthink it, and