9. Demonstrating the skillIn order for Kids’ Skills to work the skill the child is learning needs to be “doable” meaning that the child can demonstrate how he will behave – or react – in a given situation after having acquired the skill. The demonstration of the skill in a role play or in real life ensures that there is a shared understanding of what the skill means in practice while it also offers ideas of how the child may practise the skill.The following questions are examples of how you can ask the child to show his skill in practise: “Can you show me how you will react to someone being nasty to you when you have learned that skill?”, “Let’s see how you will be eating when you have learned to eat nicely”, “I would like to see how you keep concentrating on your work when your classmates try to distract you”, or “show me how it looks like when you learn to be proud and happy about things that you have done.” “Will you show me the ‘Nail Queen Skill’? I would like to see how you take care of your nails instead of biting them.”