By ending your smoking habit you will prove to yourself and those around you demonstrate your self respect and finally you will be respected by your family friend and co-worker for making such a life long decision, which it will be beneficial to both you and your family. But! if you still smoke it means you don't respect yourself. And if you don't respect yourself, then you aren't able to respected by anyone else. For example, if you are a teacher. And that school has a policy to teach students that moking is a bad thing but you still smoke in front of your student, how can student respect and believe what you have teach them while you cannot do the thing you teach. So, quit smoking!! You will gain more respect from people around you