A long running debate in my own min

A long running debate in my own mind is the difference between arrogance and confidence. Here are two definitions:

An arrogant person only feels smart if someone else feels stupid. Their sense of themselves depends on thinking less of someone else. They insist on correcting other people’s grammar or showing them their flaws, as it’s the only way they can feel an approximation of confidence. Arrogance is about intent: its when ability (or perceived ability) is used to look down on others.

A confident person feels competent from the inside out. They use their talents to genuinely try to be of use, or to succeed at the task at hand. They might seek external validation, but they don’t depend on it to define their sense of their ability or nature.

In some cases an arrogant person may have more skill than a confident person, but the confident person will tend to wield whatever abilities they have with more calm control than an arrogant person can.

Results (English) 3:

长期运行的辩论在我心中是傲慢自大和自信的区别。这里有两个定义：

傲慢的人只觉得聪明如果别人觉得愚蠢。他们的自我意识思维不取决于别人。他们坚持要纠正别人的语法或者表现出他们的缺点，这是他们能感觉到自信的近似的唯一途径。傲慢是意图：当能力（或认知能力）是用来看不起别人。一个自信的人觉得

主管从里面出来。他们用自己的才华，真正要使用，或成功完成手头的任务。他们可能会寻求外部验证，但不要依赖它来定义他们的能力或

本质的意义。在某些情况下，一个骄傲的人可能有技能比一个自信的人更多，但自信的人往往会用他们比傲慢的人更能冷静控制自己的能力。